I found Firefly's car. It is in a Walmart parking lot just not the one she told me. This Walmart is two miles south of the one she told me on the same road. That right, it isn't only in the south that there is a Walmart on every corner. I still don't have a key, but the mother of the guy she was with is getting his stuff today and I think he was in possession of it.
I did look inside the car. It was filled with her clothes, drugs, and trash. I am going to try moving it today. I am not sure whether I will put it at my house or her parents. Everyone is suggesting not to bail her out. I am leaning that way also. I do not know what she is thinking or if she could possibly control herself long enough to get to rehab.
I feel like I have given her enough help. At this point, nothing would benefit me. It is sad but true. I went into this arrangement thinking it would be good for both of us. It hasn't helped her and it certainly hasn't done much for me. The court will mandate rehab. I am not sure if they will hold her until they find a spot. She could find a spot quicker on her own, but they won't allow her to go out of state. Guess we will know more on Tuesday.
If you don't get the car, the Walmart will probably have it towed. Sad to say, but this may be best of all possible worlds.
ReplyDeleteI brought the car to her parent's house. There is no reason for anyone to spend more money getting it out of impound. Besides she has a lot of her clothes inside. She doesn't need to start from rock bottom each time. I guess I have more of a heart.
Deletebring the car to her parents' place and be over with her?
ReplyDeletebailing her out probably would not help her - at least, this way, she will stay clean..
I did bring the car to her parents. I think that was the right thing to do. I haven't decided if I am done with her, but bailing her out is not on the list as of now.
DeleteI saw in the comments that you brought the car to her parents, I think that was a good decision. No need to make things harder for her than they already are if you can help in that little way. I hope she goes to rehab and it helps.
ReplyDeleteYes There is no need for her to struggle more if it is easy to fix.
DeleteIt was a good decision to bring the Car to her Parent's House, especially since most of her Worldly Belongings are in it. You have a Big Heart and you must have resolve about not Posting Bail. She's better off being Institutionalized right now... then have mandatory Rehab... it might not Take, but it's the best shot she has right now.
ReplyDeleteI agree and with her being in jail and then in rehab I won't be seeing her much. She will need to take her own steps for sure.
Delete