Ella came over Friday night. She arrived about seven-thirty. She forgot to text me when she was heading my way, but she did text a few minutes into the drive. She came in carrying a Yeti cup with a straw in it. Alexis does that when she is driving. Alexis has alcohol in hers. I think Ella does, too.
Almost immediately, we went back out to eat. We ended up in a popular bar in downtown New Baltimore. Our conversation was stiff. Ella seemed a bit distant. I usually have a good time keeping the conversation going. I watched Ella drink two margaritas in an hour without any effect. Remember, Ella is a small girl who weighs less than a hundred pounds.
When we returned to the condo, I suggested we head upstairs and watch TV in the bedroom. After all, Ella was supposed to be staying the night. Despite our discussion on Tuesday, Ella wasn't warming up to the fact that this would be a mutually beneficial arrangement. She kept her distance.
After a TV episode, I looked at her and asked what we were doing. Ella indicated she was still on her period, one of the excuses she used on Tuesday. If you aren't able to uphold your end of the arrangement, then don't show up, or at least say something.
Ella said, "I thought this was not supposed to be just about sex."
"It's not," I replied, but she had already spent enough time around me to know that.
Ella took offense and decided to leave... empty-handed. That was fine with me. I didn't put up much of an argument. Enough red flags were already showing through.
I have been waiting to hear back from Al lately, too. So, I am back down to zero for now.
In the World of the South, Ella wouldn't rec'd even a parting blink of an eye....
ReplyDeleteI am not sorry to see her go.
DeleteI’m loving the Bath time
ReplyDeleteI wish I had better stories to tell. Seems lately there are no good stories, just stories.
DeleteAh well. Maybe someone else will come along sooner or later.
ReplyDeleteThey all come along, they just don't stick around very long.
DeleteYou, yourself said you thought she might be more relationship minded then you wanted.
ReplyDeleteI think she was trying to take me for a ride without paying the price of admission.
DeleteI think it was good that she left.
ReplyDeleteI think the whole overnight would have been filled with disappointment if she hadn't.
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