Wednesday, February 22, 2023

Collapse?

 According to an article on Yahoo, "nearly half of all young adults are single: 34 percent of women and a whopping 63 percent of men. Around 30 percent of young men reported in 2019 that they had no sex in the past year, compared to about 20 percent of young women."

The reasons are complex. The article only touches on a few. Some it gets wrong, "Women want a partner who is emotionally open and empathetic, the opposite of the age-old masculine ideal." If that were the case, the numbers would be more balanced. Society is creating a generation of weak men.

Feminism, the internet, and society all play a part. Max is part of those statistics, and I feel sorry for him. He lacks direction and has no desire to date. Not even casually, at least not that he has mentioned. 

Regardless of the root cause, the effects can be seen-- a decrease in marriages, shrinking populations, and increased mental health issues. Society as we know it is changing. Whether it will evolve into something better or snuff itself out will be the question.

I can only say things are changing for the worse by judging from the past. I would like to think it marks a change that will create future stability for our planet and race. What I see, the rise of artificial intelligence and artificial wombs, are things that will exacerbate the problem.

It reminds me of John Calhoun's mouse utopia experiment, Universe 25.

At the peak population, most mice spent every living second in the company of hundreds of other mice. They gathered in the main squares, waiting to be fed and occasionally attacking each other. Few females carried pregnancies to term, and the ones that did seemed to simply forget about their babies. They'd move half their litter away from danger and forget the rest. Sometimes they'd drop and abandon a baby while they were carrying it.

The few secluded spaces housed a population Calhoun called, "the beautiful ones." Generally guarded by one male, the females—and few males—inside the space didn't breed or fight or do anything but eat and groom and sleep. When the population started declining the beautiful ones were spared from violence and death, but had completely lost touch with social behaviors, including having sex or caring for their young.

Universe 25 population peaked at 2,200 mice and thereafter exhibited a variety of abnormal, often destructive, behaviors, including refusal to engage in courtship and females abandoning their young. By the 600th day, the population was on its way to extinction. Though physically able to reproduce, the mice had lost the social skills required to mate.


18 comments:

  1. I know several of my female friends have stayed single for years after being in long term relationships. They say they are happier now because they only have to answer to themselves. I can completely understand that. I don't plan on ever dating again either. My daughter has dated a few times in the past few years but is happier single as well. I get it.

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    1. Well you've had children, so there is not that biological need, but that would not be the same for your daughter right?

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  2. Dating game change. I hear quite a few young people don't drive. And when I was young we cruise the street.
    Be honest with you dating scares me.
    Coffee is on and stay safe

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  3. It’s a funny old world, innit.

    Like you, I wonder where the hell the future is going but then I guess every generation gets to a point where it doesn’t quite understand, holding on to the sensible past and frowning on the absurdity that lies in the future. Perhaps we are there.

    The world constantly changes and so we evolve; sometimes we go back and sometimes we veer. I suppose this is how we learn.

    I think women are growing in independence and railing against the patriarchy. I get that. The voice of women is being heard more and a lot of past trauma and resentment has yet to be aired and put right. However, this may scare some young men. This may also make a strong minded man feel emasculated. I don’t know, but biology will have an impact. Boundaries are skewed and forever moving which creates uncertainty and anxiety: hello mental health issues.

    Humans always find a way to complicate things.

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    1. Women have gained their rights. The pendulum is swilling in the other direction. It is time to get back to that middle ground.

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  4. Well you probably have a different relationship with Max, but whenever in my young years my parents thought I was single and not into dating, I was actually quite active...
    I would also say that Covid has changed the game - at least that's my feeling.

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    1. You could be right. He might not be telling me. Several things have changed the game.

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  5. Well, we're not mice, we do have brains, and we do think We are changing. Part of that is probably due to over-population. I can remember when the common thought was that humans would continue to breed uncontrollably. China only allowed one child per family for quite a number of years. That changed because there aren't enough young people to take care of the aging population. The problem with comparing us to mice is that a female mouse can have up to 10 litter a year, with each litter having 4 -5 babies. We're not like mice. We're not like rabbits either. The population is not so much changing, as it is balancing itself out. The belief that couples need to make babies is outdated. They will make babies when they need to make babies, not because society expects them to have babies.

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    1. I think countries will start encouraging babies and unwed people having babies.

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  6. I didn't think this would be the way we would thin the herd population wise but it makes sense. I think COVID help accelerate stuff and people are pretty happy staying at home.

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    1. People are staying home, but they are not happy.

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  7. I was shocked that my son married at age 25. He has zero motivation or direction career-wise, yet has a high IQ. I think the internet is partially to blame, but also seeing his father put in 12 hour days at work and then on his BlackBerry/phone/laptop (progression over the years) in the evenings and on vacations turned him off to work. His wife basically supports him (he’s only worked part time last few years). They like to travel the world and I have no idea if they will have children.

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    1. Good for him. Let's hope she doesn't decide to leave him.

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  8. I'm blessed to be contentedly married. He's my best friend.

    kkkkkkkk

    Sorry - a kitty walked on my keyboard. I decided to let Polly's 'okay' comment stay. Back to 'my' comment, we learned about Universe 25 a few years ago. What a frightening consideration for our world's future.

    Be well!

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    1. Yes, I cannot help but see how humans can be going in the same direction.

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